(Ranked by Birth Month â From Cold Cutoff to Clinging to the Past)
Not everyone moves on at the same speed.
Some slam the door and never look back.
Others leave it slightly open… just in case.
According to your birth month, the way you deal with breakups can be surprisingly telling.
Hereâs a rankingâfrom those who detach fast to those who still check the horoscope of their ex.
đ„ 1. January â Cuts you off like you never existed
January doesnât play around when it comes to endings. Once a breakup happens, they treat it like a permanent decision.
They may cry behind closed doors, but in front of you? Itâs a clean break.
They wonât re-read old messages or entertain âwhat ifs.â For them, moving on is necessary, not optional.
đ„ 2. May â Detaches emotionally, fast
May might love deeply, but when itâs overâitâs over.
They wonât chase someone who let them down or entertain emotional chaos.
They protect their peace by focusing on comfort, routine, and forward momentum.
Youâll be surprised how quickly theyâre already redecorating their space and life without you.
đ„ 3. August â Pride wonât let them look back
August doesnât beg, doesnât plead, doesnât revisit.
Even if theyâre hurting, their pride tells them: âKeep it moving.â
Theyâll post a fire selfie, take on a new challenge, and act like they never skipped a beat.
Deep down, they might still feel itâbut youâll never know.
4. October â Distracts themselves to forget fast
October believes in love, but they also believe in bouncing back.
They wonât sit in heartbreak too long. Instead, they surround themselves with people, playlists, and pretty distractions.
Theyâll romanticize healing instead of the breakupâand before long, theyâre already halfway over it.
5. June â Forgets through connection with others
June doesnât like being alone in their emotions.
They move on by talking, venting, and sometimesâdating again sooner than expected.
Theyâre not trying to replace you, but theyâre not trying to suffer, either.
If someone new comes along who gets them? Theyâll let go fast.
6. March â Slips away emotionally, gently
March wonât rage or block youâtheyâll just quietly fade.
Their heart might linger, but they start detaching while still in the relationship.
By the time it ends, theyâve already cried most of their tears in private.
They donât hold grudges. They just⊠let go slowly, then completely.
7. November â Acts cold but secretly remembers
November acts like theyâve erased you, but their heart keeps the memories tucked away.
They might delete every trace of you publiclyâbut emotionally? Theyâll revisit the moments in secret.
They want to forget fast, but deep feelings donât obey logic.
8. July â Struggles with emotional closure
July gives their heart fully, and that means it takes time to heal.
They miss not just youâbut the routines, the comfort, the shared little moments.
They want closure, softness, and peaceâbut donât always get it.
So they hang on longer than they should, trying to understand why.
9. February â Detached outside, lingering inside
February seems like theyâre over you in a week.
Theyâll be witty, unbothered, and distracted. But inside? The thoughts spiral.
They intellectualize everythingâthen wonder why the feelings wonât just disappear.
They move on in public⊠but in private, they overanalyze.
10. April â Pretends to forget, secretly checks your profile
April will tell everyone theyâre fine. Theyâll laugh, flirt, and throw themselves into new things.
But their passion doesnât fade easily. Theyâll randomly check your old texts or IG stories at 2 a.m.
They might forgive. They might not. But forget? That takes time.
11. September â Analyzes the breakup for months
September doesnât just âmove on.â They process.
They need to understand what went wrong, how they missed the signs, and what they couldâve done differently.
Theyâll stay emotionally connected longer than they admitâbecause for them, healing comes from clarity, not distractions.
12. December â Carries the past in their heart
December doesnât let go easily. They attach deeplyâto people, memories, and promises made in the dark.
Theyâll smile through it and distract themselves, but they replay conversations, songs, and âwhat ifsâ long after.
They will healâbut they never forget.
đ Who truly forgets?
Maybe forgetting isnât the goal.
Maybe itâs remembering without pain.
Because no matter how fast or slowâŠ
Youâre still learning what kind of love you deserve next.